THE CHOICES

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <br /> <div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 21.3333px;"><b>BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH</b></span></span></div> <div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 21.3333px;"><b><br /></b></span></span></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-G30w9NGzRgI/XjZdETNahNI/AAAAAAAAAok/zB3-6_vMhGckjD5nzkhGBRjjx_SEBmh5wCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/20171108_151001.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1600" data-original-width="1200" height="400" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-G30w9NGzRgI/XjZdETNahNI/AAAAAAAAAok/zB3-6_vMhGckjD5nzkhGBRjjx_SEBmh5wCLcBGAsYHQ/s400/20171108_151001.jpg" width="300" /></a></div> <div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 21.3333px;"><b><br /></b></span></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">          </span>We are the outcome of our choices that we make consciously or unconsciously in our lives. What we are today has been determined by our choices that we made in some part of our time in our lives. Each and every choice leads us to a particular route. If we live with a particular choice, we lead ourselves to a particular result. We can’t complain while receiving the result of our choices, rather we should become conscious while making the choices. We can’t blame God, conditions & circumstances and other people in our lives for our mistakes because we have the freedom to make conscious choices to create the future we desire. We should be bold enough to take responsibilities for our lives as well as to determine our choices.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">          </span>Arunima Sinha, who lost her leg after she was thrown out from a moving train has become the first amputee to climb Mount Everest. Arunima is a seven time Indian volley ball player and mountaineer. She was pushed away from a running train by some thieves when she repeatedly attempted to resist them while they were trying to steal her purse. After falling down from the moving train, another passing train crushed her left leg which forced the doctors to amputate below the knee to save her life. Even after facing such hardship she decided to climb the Mount Everest with an artificial leg. And she did it successfully. She proved to the world that it is the conscious choice that one makes for himself creates destiny. Her story narrates the triumph of will. Likewise we all are confronted with many obstacles to achieve our desired success in life. But the choice lies with us to choose the best and to overcome the worst. Nothing good can be achieved without struggle. If we want to get rid of struggle, we have to leave our lives. Therefore it is always better to strive for the best. <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">          </span>Here I am going to explain about some areas where we must make our choices consciously to create a life we desire. We must make a list of our conscious choices and strive to stick to it at any cost if we want to become successful in our lives.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">1.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">    </span></span></span></b><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We need to choose our Goals:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The first list of choices in our lives is the determination of goals. We can’t accomplish anything in our lives without setting goals. We must also categorize our goals to make our achievements bigger. Determining our Spiritual Goals, Financial Goals and Social Goals is very important. A person can’t prosper by achieving only the material or financial goals. Peace of mind and happiness will only come when a person also try to fix and achieve his spiritual and social goals.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Remember: </span></b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Our goals may be numerous but they should not be contradictory to each other. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red;"><o:p></o:p></span></b></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span><o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">    </span></span></span></b><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We need to choose our principles:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We must find out those principles that will determine the personality that we choose ourselves to be. We must be very careful in observing these principles. We must never try to violate them. If we violate them we will be out of the track. Our identity and character will be spoiled. It is not simply enough to make the choices but to stick to it consciously at any cost. Failures will be there to obstruct us. Failures will frustrate us again and again. But we must always keep in mind about the result. Our choices will give us the result that we choose. We have to learn to stand up again and again to redirect ourselves to remain with our conscious choices. Therefore decide your principles now. Make a list of your choices of your principles consciously:<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">What are the principles that you will follow in your life? <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">What are the principles that better suits your personality?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">What are the principles that make you happy?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">What are the principles that make you feel better?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Remember:</span></b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> Our principles and our goals must be harmonious. Our principles must lead us to our goals and should not take us away from them.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">    </span></span></span></b><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We need to prioritize our relationships:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Relationships which are good and healthy are very important for our existence. Make a list of the people who are very important in your life. Arrange them in a order of preference. Maintain healthy communication with them and let them know how you care about them and love them. If you don’t maintain regularity and continuity in the relationships, doubts and misunderstanding will crop up and eventually will destroy the relationship. Therefore it is always better to keep company of wise people. </span><a href="https://www.mydearstudents.in/2019/05/howto-recognize-people-bhaskar-jyoti.html"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Know the people</span></a><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> in your list properly; understand their mind and their heart. Gather information about their choices too to continue a healthy relationship with them. <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Remember:</span></b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> Avoid people who obstruct your growth directly or indirectly until you succeed. Learn to say ‘no’ to people gracefully. Don’t make enemies. Learn to work with people.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">    </span></span></span></b><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We need to choose our daily conscious activities:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="background: white; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph; vertical-align: baseline;"> <span lang="EN-US" style="border: none 1.0pt; color: black; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%; padding: 0cm;"> We are what we do repeatedly. When we do things repeatedly it becomes spontaneous. It becomes our habit, character and destiny. It means that if we carry out certain activities on a daily basis pertaining to our goals, we can make 'success' a spontaneous process. Our daily routine therefore is a vital tool for achieving enduring success in our lives. However daily routine to make a person successful in his life must be organized and arranged properly to ensure the desired outcome. If a person earnestly understands the importance of a daily routine and follow it in his daily life he will get everything that he wants from his life.</span><span style="color: black; font-family: "tahoma" , "sans-serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We need to choose our daily activities in terms of our goals. I have already written two blogs on this topic - one is </span><a href="https://www.mydearstudents.in/2018/05/direction-is-more-important-than-speed.html"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">“Direction is more important than speed”</span></a><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> and </span><a href="https://www.mydearstudents.in/2018/07/success-with-help-of-your-daily-routine.html"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">“Success with the help of your daily routine.”</span></a><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">    </span></span></span></b><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We must practice Self control:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Practicing Self control is very important for us. We must restrict ourselves and our thoughts not to take us to the areas that may ruin our future. We must be extremely cautious about this fact. Sometimes emotions will come to distract us, sometimes ego, procrastinations, laziness, ignorance, frustrations and lot more. But we have to be vigilant. We can’t predict when our mind will drag us to take a different turn and take us away from our conscious choices. </span><a href="https://www.mydearstudents.in/2018/05/self-control-root-of-success.html"><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Self control is the root of success.</span></a><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> Whenever any condition arises where your mind started to carry you against your goal, you have to control it ruthlessly. Never allow thoughts to distract you from achieving your goal and to remain with your choices.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">6.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">    </span></span></span></b><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We must be ready to sacrifice our minor interests to achieve the greater one:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Choices are unlimited. We can’t choose the infinite as we may end in achieving none. Therefore we need to focus our mental and physical energy to some specific choices. If we don’t make a choice and achieve what we want, we can’t repent for any loss. Sometimes some artificial urgency to choose something different may arise due to the emergence of certain conditions. But we have to hold us tight. We can’t let us loose to choose something instantly and run after them. We must prioritize our goals and achieve them in the order of our preference. In that sense we sometimes, have to sacrifice some minor interests to achieve our chosen goals. Sometimes we need to practice patience and tolerance to sacrifice temporarily and affix new goals and to achieve them permanently.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #c00000; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Remember:</span></b><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> Stay Focussed. Be Specific in terms of your goals. Make them crystal clear. Don’t allow other interests and goals to distract you unless you achieve your chosen goals in the order of preference. Take time to think, analyze your goals and their importance in your life while choosing them and arranging the preferences.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Accordingly don’t change your principles and relationships. If any principle is obstructing to achieve your goals then you can think about reviewing them. Therefore choose your goals wisely.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #548dd4; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Create a Life of your choice:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">The power of our conscious choices has the potentialities to create destiny. We can only create the life we desire by our conscious choices and not by unconscious submissions to the conditions. However to make our conscious choices to create our destinies we have to pay the price. We must learn to sacrifice those which are not our choices if they confronts us. <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We have to check ourselves continuously on a daily basis:<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Whether we are living a life with right attitude?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Whether we are determined to achieve our goals?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Do we have sufficient courage to stick to our choices?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Do we suffer from lack of will and determination?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Whether we maintain our personal integrity?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Whether we have maintained purity of our purpose and action?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Whether the choices that we have made will help us to create the life we desire?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Life gives us infinite options. <span style="color: red;">We will become directionless in our lives if we become motivated by everything we come across.</span><span style="color: black;"> Therefore we must learn to make conscious choices and stick to it.</span></span><span style="color: black; font-size: 13.5pt; line-height: 115%;"> </span><span style="color: black; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">Then our intelligence will be fixed. </span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;">We have to choose our options consciously to create a life that we desire. The choices will be there for us always. We at any moment of time may give up our determined choices due to obstacles, frustrations, lack of determination, lack of will and courage, procrastinations, laziness etc. If we give up our choices, we will fail miserably. We will not be able to live a fulfilled life of happiness, joy and prosperity. Therefore we need to make our choices consciously and live with it.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <br /></div>

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HOW TO DEVELOP YOUR COMPETENCIES

<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <br /> <div class="MsoNormal"> </div> <div class="MsoNormal"> </div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> </div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <br /></div> <div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: center;"> <span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 24px;"><b>BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH</b></span></span><br /> <span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 24px;"><b><br /></b></span></span> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ipLcvvs3_vY/XcPGrdwEbAI/AAAAAAAAAnQ/9cjK4ceglJUiNTbCJxsFXD74lRS1Shy2gCLcBGAsYHQ/s1600/138.JPG" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="1600" height="300" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-ipLcvvs3_vY/XcPGrdwEbAI/AAAAAAAAAnQ/9cjK4ceglJUiNTbCJxsFXD74lRS1Shy2gCLcBGAsYHQ/s400/138.JPG" width="400" /></a></div> <span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 24px;"><b><br /></b></span></span></div> <div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: center;"> <b style="text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt;"><span style="color: #0070c0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">               </span></b><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman", serif; font-size: 14pt; line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36pt;"> </span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Thousands of books have been written on the secrets of success till date. Today virtually there remained no secrets to achieve success. Even though, all the people are not equally successful in their lives. The reason is people have to find out their secrets of success by themselves, which is not easy. To find out their own secrets they need assistance and direction. Without direction and guidance the talents will be wasted. This writing will help you not only to understand yourself but also others whomever you want to assess. You will be learning to know how competent you are and what are the areas you need to develop your competencies for achieving super success.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Developing your Competencies:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Why most of the people fail in their lives? Why they fail to achieve the success they desire even though they possess all qualifications, merit and talents? It is because they do not know themselves. They do not know their traits, skills, capacities and competencies. Once a person will understand his competencies and the areas where he is lacking his competencies, he can truly recognize himself. He will understand where he should focus his energy for his growth and development. Therefore understanding and analysing the competencies of oneself is the only gateway to super success. Here in this writing I am going to share with you all the secrets that can make you successful in your life. <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 2.0cm; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">1. Find out your competencies:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Determining goals is a prerequisite to success. Before determining your goals you have to know that whether you possess the qualities to achieve the goals that want to set. Are you competent enough to achieve your goals? The competencies only will boost your confidence to achieve your goals. Therefore before you determine your goals, know your competencies. After knowing your competencies only you can set proper goals in your life. Following are some of the types of competencies:<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Intellectual Competencies:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">This is the most important type of competencies that determines your probability of success. It determines what you can do and not what you want to do. Intellectual competencies can be best recognised by the various intellectual skills e.g. investigative skills for fact finding, decision making, rational and analytical thinking, planning, creativity and innovativeness.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Answer these questions to find out your intellectual competencies:<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you take effective decisions?<span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                      </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you analyse a situation properly?<span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Do you study books regularly? <span style="mso-tab-count: 5;">                                         </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Do you always behave rationally?<span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                      </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Have you determined your goals?<span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                      </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Have you developed a definite plan to achieve your goals? Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">If your answers are negative, you have to take steps to develop your intellectual competencies. <o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraph" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Emotional or Personal Competency:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">A person can’t become wise if there is no connection between the head and the heart. Answer the following questions:<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Are your consistent in your behaviour?<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span><span style="mso-tab-count: 3;">                           </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Do you behave to the same stimulus similarly?<span style="mso-tab-count: 2;">                  </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Do you contribute to positive behaviour in family, society or workplace?<span style="mso-tab-count: 9;">                                                                                  </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you handle pressure effectively and independently?<span style="mso-tab-count: 1;">   </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you react to negative situations proactively?<span style="mso-tab-count: 2;">               </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you accept responsibility of your own faults? <span style="mso-tab-count: 2;">            </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you control yourself properly in any situation?<span style="mso-tab-count: 2;">           </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Do you blame others for your faults?<span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                 </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Do you criticise others frequently?<span style="mso-tab-count: 4;">                                     </span>Yes/No<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Controlling negative emotions is very essential to achieve greater success in life. Understand the above questions, answer them genuinely and know where do you stand.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Inter-personal Competencies:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">How well you can express yourself?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">How well you can make oral presentation?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Do you maintain modesty in your behaviour?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">What is your capacity of reading and writing?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you leave impact or influence people?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you persuade people?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">How flexible are you?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Leadership Competencies:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">You can become a leader only when you possess leadership skills. To understand what is your leadership competencies, answer the following questions:<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">What is your organizing capacity?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">What are your negotiating skills?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you motivate others?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Do you have the capacity to empower others?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you independently work under continuous pressure?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">What are your risk taking abilities?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">How decisive are you?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you work together with a team?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">How well you can coordinate with each other in a team?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you lead a team? How effectively can you manage a team?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 72.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Can you effectively delegate works to your subordinates?<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">After finding out all your answers, you will have some ideas about your competencies. You will come to know what you possess and what you do not. As a result you will be free from some of your false self beliefs. You will now get a proper idea and image about your self which will help you to set your goals and to achieve them.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">2.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">    </span></span></span></b><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Find out your goals:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Goal setting is a very important task in life. If you do not set a goal you can’t achieve it. Therefore the first and foremost thing in your life is to determine what you want from your life. Make a list of all your dreams and desires and convert them into your goals. While setting your goals keep in mind your competencies, personality traits and values that you admire.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 54.0pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">3.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">    </span></span></span></b><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Find out the areas where you need to develop your competencies in terms of your goals:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">This is a very important area where most of the people fail. We must understand our strengths and weaknesses as well. We must know the areas where we need growth. If we do not develop those areas, we will not be able to achieve our goals.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">To develop your intellectual competencies you have to acquire the required information. You need to learn to analyse the problems critically to find out a suitable solution. You have to develop the habit of continuous learning.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">To develop your critical thinking you have to practice reasoning. Solve reasoning problems on a daily or weekly basis to sharpen your critical and analytical thinking. You will be able to find out the answer of the problems you face in your life and workplace.<span style="mso-spacerun: yes;">  </span>Develop the habit of studying books that will help you to reach your goal.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Proper planning skill is very important for life. As author Alan Lakein said, “Planning is bringing the future into the present so that you can do something about it now.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">To develop our emotional competencies we need to learn to befriend our emotions. You need to practice self-discipline and tremendous self-control. Without self-control you can’t expect your desired success. You should be firm in your resolutions and principles. You should follow your ideals always at any cost.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Read books on leadership traits. Study the biographies and autobiographies of the great leaders of the world.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpFirst" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 35.45pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: 17.4pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">4.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">     </span></span></span></b><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Find out your regular activities on a daily basis for rapid growth:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Your most important work is to find out the activities or practices that will lead you closer to your goals. After finding out the practices you have to make union with them. You have to integrate yourself with the practices which will develop your competencies to such a level that success will come to you spontaneously. You have to work hard. You have to make ‘working hard to the level of your goals’ a spontaneous process so that every achievement will become ‘spontaneous’ for you. This is the simple and the biggest secret of my teaching. Anybody can achieve any goal provided he can integrate himself in the process and loss himself in them. Success is bound to follow.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpMiddle" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 70.9pt; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: -18.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <!--[if !supportLists]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%; mso-fareast-font-family: "Times New Roman";"><span style="mso-list: Ignore;">5.<span style="font: 7.0pt "Times New Roman";">    </span></span></span></b><!--[endif]--><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Find motivations to focus:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">You have to focus on your goals if you want to achieve it. To stay focussed you have to stay motivated. Find enough motivation for yourself to achieve your goal. Never allow your goals to remain out of your sight. See your goals everywhere. Think of your goals. Dream of your goals. Most importantly find a Mentor who can actually help you to realize your goals.<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><o:p></o:p></b></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">In the Conclusion:<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-left: 36.0pt; text-align: justify; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 150%;">To develop your competencies you have to know ‘where to focus’; you have to know ‘what your goals are.’ Moreover you also have to find out the things that distracts you from your goal. Otherwise unconsciously you will be distracting yourself from your goals. If you get distracted you will reach nowhere. Develop your competencies to the level of your goals. Speed doesn’t matter but direction matters a lot. You have to raise your level of performance to that extent so that success will become a spontaneous process for you. I want to conclude with the quote of Friedrich Hegel, “A man who has work that suits him, and a wife whom he loves, has squared his accounts with life.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <br /></div> </div>

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Those who see when they are shown. Those who do not see.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“I love those who can smile in trouble, who can gather strength from distress, and grow brave by reflection. ‘Tis the business of little minds to shrink, but they whose heart is firm, and whose conscience approves their conduct, will pursue their principles unto death.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <b><span style="color: #00b050; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Swami Vivekananda<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Take up one idea. Make that one idea your life – think of it, dream of it, live on that idea. Let the brain, muscles, nerves, every part of your body, be full of that idea, and just leave every other idea alone. This is the way to success.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Arise! Awake! And stop not until the goal is reached.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <b><span style="color: #00b050; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Swami Sivananda<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Put your heart, mind and soul into even your smallest acts. This is the secret of success.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <b><span style="color: #00b050; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Mahatma Gandhi<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Happiness is when what you think, what you say and what you do, are in harmony.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Strength does not come from physical capacity. It comes from an indomitable will.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is an attribute of the strong.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <b><span style="color: #00b050; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Bill Gates<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“If you are born poor it’s not your mistake, but if you die poor, it’s your mistake.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“As we look ahead into the next century, leaders will be those who empower others.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <b><span style="color: #00b050; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Steve Jobs<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Be a yardstick of quality. Some people aren’t used to an environment where excellence is expected.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Stay hungry. Stay foolish.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <b><span style="color: #00b050; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Paulo Coelho<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Remember wherever your heart is, there you will find your treasure.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <b><span style="color: #00b050; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Warren Buffett<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“It’s better to hang out with people better than you. Pick out associates whose behaviour is better than yours and you will drift in that direction.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Honesty is a very expensive gift. Don’t expect it from cheap people.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <br /></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <b><span style="color: #00b050; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">A.P.J.Abdul Kalam<o:p></o:p></span></b></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“Never stop fighting until you arrive at your destined place – that is, the unique you. Have an aim in life, continuously acquire knowledge, work hard and have perseverance to realise the great life.”<o:p></o:p></span></div> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: #00b0f0; font-family: "Times New Roman","serif"; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">“My message, especially to young people is to have courage to think differently, courage to invent, to travel the unexplored path, courage to discover the impossible and to conquer the problems and succeed. These are great qualities that they must work towards. This is my message to the young people.” <o:p></o:p></span></div> <span style="color: #333333; font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"> <!--[endif]--></span><span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span><br /> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <br /></div> </div> <div align="center" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-align: center;"> <div align="center" class="MsoListParagraphCxSpLast" style="text-align: center;"> <span style="font-family: "times new roman" , "serif"; font-size: 14.0pt; line-height: 115%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> </div> </div>

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<div dir="ltr" style="text-align: left;" trbidi="on"> <br /> <div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center; text-indent: 36.0pt;"> <br /></div> <div align="center" class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; text-align: center; text-indent: 36.0pt;"> <span style="color: red; font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 26.6667px;"><b>BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH</b></span></span><br /> <span style="color: red; font-family: "times new roman" , serif;"><span style="font-size: 26.6667px;"><b><br /></b></span></span> <br /> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <a href="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6IRylxh3ibs/XQt2f_U7OII/AAAAAAAAAeU/zv8Q0w1zvmwm5U9rHjMn4GiguchkFo_rgCLcBGAs/s1600/DSCN6157%2Bcopy.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" data-original-height="1200" data-original-width="1600" height="300" src="https://1.bp.blogspot.com/-6IRylxh3ibs/XQt2f_U7OII/AAAAAAAAAeU/zv8Q0w1zvmwm5U9rHjMn4GiguchkFo_rgCLcBGAs/s400/DSCN6157%2Bcopy.jpg" width="400" /></a></div> <div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"> <br /></div> </div> <div class="MsoListParagraph" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 54.0pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <div class="MsoListParagraph" style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin-bottom: 0cm; margin-left: 54.0pt; margin-right: 0cm; margin-top: 0cm; mso-add-space: auto; mso-list: l0 level1 lfo1; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <div style="margin: 0cm 0cm 0.0001pt; text-indent: 45.25pt;"> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">1. Be true to yourself:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">The first and the foremost requirement to develop self-confidence is to be true to oneself. Be true to oneself means that you keep your promises and the commitments you make to yourself pertaining to your life. You can only be true to yourself if you know what you want from your life. What you want to become? What is your aim in life? Then only you will recognize the direction towards which you are moving in your life. You cannot develop confidence without achievements. You need to increase your achievements to develop self-confidence. Therefore work every single day to achieve daily small success.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">2. Be true to others:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Do not break other people’s faith on you.  I mean other people’s faith only in the positive aspects. When you keep your promises made to other people, they will put more trust upon you. Other people’s trust upon you is an indication that you are reliable and trustworthy, which in turn will make you feel happy and increase your faith upon you.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">3. Have a clear cut goal or aim in life:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">How to remain true to yourself? What direction should you follow? What will be the yardsticks? All these will be determined by the aim that you decide for your life. The aim in life is the only yardstick through which you can measure whether you are on the right track or out of track. If you are on the right track and moving ahead per day, your faith and confidence on yourself will be increased bit by bit every single day.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">If you do not have an aim, it doesn’t matter where you are and where you want to go. Do anything you like and your life will become a disaster. You can’t be able develop your confidence without developing your competence in a particular direction.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">4. Have a daily routine:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">How to assess your progress? You can assess your progress by means of your <a href="https://www.mydearstudents.in/2018/07/success-with-help-of-your-daily-routine.html">daily routine</a>. Choose activities that if you practice every day will move you nearer to your goal. Do not keep any contradictory activities that move you away from your goal. Therefore you need to recognise your emotion and passion, that which if you provide direction in your life will lead you to your destination. REMEMBER - Your daily routine only will decide, whether you can achieve your goal or not. Therefore choose your daily activities corresponding to your life’s programme. No need to study hundreds of books. Study your actions cautiously. Work performed in the right manner can free you from all miseries. You are what you repeatedly do. The key to design your future is to take control of the present moment and utilize it to achieve your goals.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">5. Break your routine once a week:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">It is important that our daily routine must be carried out because it leads to our goal. But while doing your daily activities regularly without any break will make you slave of those activities and then you will develop a mechanical tendency to follow or perform those activities. So breaking the routine once or twice in a week is also as important as following the routine. I am sharing with you only from my personal experience. Rules are meant for our upliftment. But we must ourselves be free from those rules. Rules or activities must not be allowed to rule us. If you continue to maintain your routine for say one month or a year, then you will not remain under your control and you will lose the freedom to decide. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #00b0f0;">REMEMBER THIS</span></b>. Initially our desire for achievement becomes very strong and so we develop a tendency to work more. Believe me, I am insisting here to make your life a spontaneous activity where you must have scope to enjoy everything that you need to. You will realize later on that positivity and negativity both are equally important in our life for our survival. Evil exists to glorify the good. <span style="color: red;">Problems exist to glorify the Hero</span>.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Therefore, choose any day in the week and break the routine. Break all the rules voluntarily. Enjoy the freedom from the daily routine. Be FREE, Feel FREE. Allow only freedom and nothing else. Be the king for that day and celebrate. While ending the day remember, tomorrow you have to wake up with the routine. If you break the routine or activities again and begin to celebrate, you will go away from your destiny. If you persist breaking the routine, then remember you will never reach your goal or aim in life. Conditions will control you, you will become slave to the conditions and you will not have the power to control your Conditions. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #00b0f0;">To become FREE you have to work incessantly.</span></b><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">6. Do not give up your beliefs even for a single moment:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">You can break your routine. You can give up your practice for a day. But never give up your beliefs. Never give up faith. The moment you give up faith, that moment will decide the end of your destiny. Faith is the essence. So always stick to your principles and practices in a bull like tenacity.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">7. Journal your works and progress daily:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Journaling or <a href="https://www.mydearstudents.in/2018/06/success-with-help-of-diary.html">keeping a diary</a> is very  important. Jot down your entire journey of the day in the evening after your routine work is over. This is very important as it is a reflection of the activities that you have done and you can also contemplate upon it. Whatever you have done is right or wrong? Is there any other effective way to get the things done? Can I introduce more innovation in my work? These things need to be ponder upon and cogitate seriously. All these should be written down properly so that whenever if you want to check your activities you can find it out, where the mistakes are lying down! <o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <span style="color: #3b3835; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">  </span><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Keeping a personal journal will put you in control of your life. Many times we believe things happen to us and we have no control or we just go through life without any thoughts of working towards something. With a journal we get a clear insight into where we are going and where we have come from, giving us an opportunity to change our path if we don’t like what we experience.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><u1:p></u1:p>8. Maintain a self correction register:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Self correction is an essential tool for self development. If there is no development of the self, there will no development of faith. Therefore successful people are full of more confidence, faith and happiness.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Do not confuse the Journal with the self correction register. In the Journal you will note all your daily activities and progress. But in the self-correction register you will only record your faults. What mistakes you have committed during your course of action that you have to write seriously. Why the mistakes have been committed? What steps can you take to avoid these mistakes in future? These answers you have to jot down in the Self-Correction Register.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">9. Maintain personal integrity:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">It is balance between your thoughts and deeds. Whatever you decide for yourself and others put it earnestly into action. It will give you tremendous  peace and happiness and more importantly make you confident.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">10. Live in the present:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">When you work, concentrate only on your work. Live for the day only. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red;">Do not live in future. Future will take care of itself, if you take care of the day.</span></b> A day wisely spent will make your life better, because many days put together constitute life. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red;">Therefore live the present moment wisely</span></b>. Utilise it to the fullest. Do not waste even a single minute. Minutes together make an hour and hours together a day. REMEMBER THIS. Take care of the minutes, hours will be taken care of automatically. Take care of the day, the months and the years taken care of. Life will automatically taken proper care by you. Therefore do not waste time in vain gossiping.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 49.65pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">11. <b>Devotion to work will develop more faith and confidence:</b><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">It is only ‘work’ and the ‘way you work’ that make a person free from all miseries. Our future is determined by our work. When you are doing a work with full concentration and devotion, the outcome is marvellous. Means to the work is very important then the result. Result will automatically follow provided you have done justice to the work. It is said, ‘as you sow, so you reap’. So when you devote yourself to the work wholeheartedly, you are bound to get the desired result. When you get the result as desired, it will develop faith in yourself.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">12. Become Self-reliant:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Self reliance is the highest virtue. Never depend upon others for the work that needs to be done by you. Put extra effort. Do your duty by yourself. When you are asking others to do your duty, you are relying upon others. When you rely on others, you become dependent on them. If the nature of the work allows others to do the work, that is not a matter of concern. What I am referring is what to be done by yourself only should not be given to others. This will lead to procrastination, unnecessary delay in the work, violation of promises, confusion, irritation, anger etc. which is self-destructive.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">13. Importance of Good Health and Physical exercises:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Health is wealth. Health is the only real wealth. There is nothing beyond it. You can enjoy this beautiful life only if you maintain good health. Therefore to maintain your health in the proper way, the role of diet, nutrition and physical exercises are of immense importance. If you do not put physical exercises in your routine, believe me, sooner or later disease will caught you. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red;">A diseased body cannot help you to develop faith and confidence in yourself. </span></b>I am not talking about a single aspect of your life. I am accepting a holistic view of life. Success only in one aspect of life never determines overall success. Therefore find out ways and tactics to keep your body healthy. At least for one hour per day do physical exercises or yoga. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: #1f497d;">Stress your body on a regular basis so that it can handle stress.</span></b> Consult a Physical Instructor.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">14. Importance of right food to control your temperament:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Food controls our temperament. After getting digested the subtle elements of food influence our mind and attitudes and thoughts. Thoughts results in action; action creates habits; and habit leads to destiny. Therefore destiny is your own creation. Hence, choose your foods wisely. Do not take hot, pungent, spicy, non-vegetarian food frequently. These food have a tendency to divert the concentration of mind.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Have proper knowledge of diet and nutrition. Knowledge of ‘nature cure’ of diseases is also equally important to cure simple diseases by household remedies without weakening the immune system.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 2.0cm; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">15. Work more and Achieve more:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">If you do not work for a day, your development will remain stagnant for a day. If you procrastinate then you may never reach your destiny. Therefore there is no other option to work. Work is a means and an end in itself. It is work that makes you free. It is work that gives freedom and liberation to the seekers. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red;">You cannot sit idle to develop faith and confidence. </span></b>Therefore work more and achieve more. Work continuously and incessantly.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">16. Maximise your potential:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Recognize your abilities and<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> </b>maximise your skill. If you want to excel in any field you have to remain updated. Develop potentialities as per the requirement of your time and condition. Find out every single possibility through which you can maximise your potential.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">17. Jot down ideas:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Jot down any idea that comes to your mind immediately. If you lose it, you may lose it forever. Therefore always carry a small note book with you. Jot down any idea then and there, as soon as it comes. Jot down any idea that can maximize your potential. It can be virtually anything.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">18. Be slow and steady in introducing new things to yourself:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Slow and steady wins the race. To be a Winner you need to work on a regular basis. Getting a job or other temporary success never assures permanent success. In fact your real struggle begins after that. Therefore never suddenly plunge into any action. Analyse the pros and cons and then experiment it. After being thoroughly convinced introduce any new things to yourself. Be always slow and steady relating to this matter.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">19. Develop firm belief on certain principles:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red; font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">What you believe that only you achieve.</span></b><b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"> </span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Be it positive or negative, you are the outcome of your beliefs. Therefore decide your beliefs consciously. Deny negative beliefs which are unconsciously occupying your mind. Take control of your life by choosing your beliefs consciously.<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> </b>Follow them till the end of your life. You are what you believe.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">20. Never upset your balance of mind:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Balance of mind is the state of mind which is the objective of every philosophy. The mind best functions when it is balanced. If the balance of mind becomes frequently disturbed by the various states of mind and the consequent problems, the will power and determination of a person will also be affected. A mind which is easily upset cannot dream of big success. Therefore, patience and tolerance is of utmost importance in life. One without patience and tolerance cannot have a calm and balanced mind. Irritation, impatience, anger, short tempered people cannot think of a <a href="https://www.mydearstudents.in/2018/06/balance-is-life.html">balanced state of mind</a>. Their success level also will remain stagnant.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">21. Practice, Practice, Practice your beliefs:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Whatever practices you decide for yourself, practice those beliefs earnestly. Always strengthen your beliefs by enriching it. By constant enquiry and self-study expand your beliefs and continue your practices. In the beginning keep only very simple practices. Be slow and steady. After acquiring and developing a belief successfully, choose and acquire another. There is virtually nothing that you can't achieve by practice.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">22. Create good habits:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">It is said that people can be best judge by their habits. Good habits belong to the successful people. Bad habits take us away from our destiny. Early rising, Study for one’s own self at least for one hour daily, physical exercises, updating required skill and knowledge, punctuality, discipline are certain very good habits acquired by successful people. If you too acquire these habits of the successful people, you will become successful in your life. Develop habits that carry you closer to your goal.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <br /></div> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 42.55pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">23. Choose your Virtues:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Conduct is the root of prosperity. Conduct is guided by virtues. Virtues are nurtured and shaped since childhood. It can’t be developed and made a spontaneous practice in a day. It needs to be cultivated. We are lacking many of the virtues which are an urgent requirement in our daily life. Virtues are our real friend. They save us during emergencies and danger. Where our kith and kin fail, there our virtues rescue us. Knowing this fact try to develop and cultivate the virtues mostly required by you and never give up the practice.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">The Bhagavad Gita in its Sixteenth Chapter list down the some important virtues:<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Fearlessness;<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Purification of one’s existence;<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Self-control;<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Simplicity;<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Truthfulness;<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Freedom from anger;<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Tranquillity;<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Gentleness;<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 45.25pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Steady determination etc.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">However cultivation of virtues also requires clear understanding. The virtues must be developed in relation to the affixed goal in life. The virtues must not take you away from your goal. If you have developed earnestly and rightly, virtues will become your biggest friend. You will become successful in any endeavour in your life. You will become a great leader. People will run after you. And remember if you cannot obtain the faith of other people, you cannot become successful in your life.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">24. Do not believe in wrong things:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">Always act rationally. Never believe things blindly. Analyse everything clearly and understand from your own experience. Do not take into other people’s experience true to yourself directly. In every case there is an exception. Therefore experiment, analyse and then believe the facts. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red;">Do not believe in Superstitions</span></b>. <span style="color: red;">If you believe in superstitions then you can’t develop confidence in yourself.</span> Cut them out from the root.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">25. Surrender to God:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"> You are not complete without God. Surrender to Him what you cannot control. Be at peace. It is God who is omnipotent and omniscient, all pervading. He is complete in all aspects. Pray to Him fervently to guide you. Work as if it has been entrusted to you by God. Give your 100% to your work. Give all your honesty and integrity to the work in hand. Surrender the result of your work to God and be at peace. There are many things in life which are beyond our control. We can’t control the outside world except only our works. We can’t control the result but only our works. Therefore we need to learn to be at ease by surrendering the result of our work to God. What is due to us will come back to us. Take the whole responsibility of the work upon yourself and let God determine the result of your works.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 52.35pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">26. Never bow down to Challenges:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">If you want to be self-confident do not run away from a situation. Do not be escapist. Face any situation boldly. Whenever any challenges arise we need to accept it as an opportunity to face it. But remember it must be in terms of your goal. Do not engage in facing challenges that diverts your direction. If you lose your track, you will be out of your goal. Therefore here I want to ensure do not blindly face challenges to test your confidence. Know the challenge. Understand it first. Than based upon your own capacity jump into action. Never allow fear to take hold over you. Face challenges and overcome your fear. REMEMBER on the other side of fear lies VICTORY. All people do not have the guts to face fear. If you can face your fears than definitely your future is bright.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 59.4pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">27. Do not act contradictorily:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">There should not be any unnecessary hurry to reach your goal as early as possible. The moment will come spontaneously when your daily routine and actions will lead to your goal. No need to work very hard. Follow the rhythm that you want to maintain. Wait and watch coolly. Inevitably success will come to you. Be innovative and introduce it to reach your goal. But<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> do not try new things regularly.</b> It may take you away from your goal.<b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"> Do not be hypocrite.<o:p></o:p></b><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 59.4pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">28. Seek a Mentor/Guru:</span></b><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;"><o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div style="line-height: 150%; margin-bottom: .0001pt; margin: 0cm; text-align: justify; text-indent: 36.0pt; text-justify: inter-ideograph;"> <o:p></o:p><span style="font-size: 16.0pt; line-height: 150%;">You need a real mentor in your life, who can guide you always. The mentor is like the compass, and you are the captain of the ship of your life. It is the compass that determines your direction. Find a suitable mentor for yourself. A mentor is a person who has actually achieved something that you want to achieve. Whenever you are in the company of your mentor you will feel like that you have actually achieved your goals. Your goals will become crystal clear to you and the determination and confidence to achieve them will become more firm when you have a mentor with you. <b style="mso-bidi-font-weight: normal;"><span style="color: red;">REMEMBER upon the quality of the mentor depends the probability of your success. </span></b>Therefore choose your mentor wisely. Choose the best.<o:p></o:p></span></div> <o:p></o:p> <br /> <div class="MsoNormal" style="line-height: 150%;"> <br /></div> <br /></div> </div> </div> </div> </div> </div>

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