BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH The world begins with you. All the beginnings start with the self. If I exists than everything exis...
BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH
The
world begins with you. All the beginnings start with the self. If I exists than
everything exists. And if I perish, everything will perish. Therefore learn to
value yourself first. If you value yourself, you can learn to value others. If
you can respect yourself, you can respect others. If you love yourself, you can
love others. This is a relative phenomenon. What you are not inside, you can’t
be outside. In fact the world begins from you.
Every
beginning begins with faith. Without faith nothing can exist and persists. If
you do not cultivate enough faith in yourself, you may not be successful in
your life as you are determined to be. The external world is created by God.
But the inner world is your own creation. And faith is the only foundation which can create a happy and harmonious
inner world. What is inside is well reflected
outside. When you give a solid foundation to faith in yourself, you can create
your destiny. All you have to do is to begin yourself first to cultivate the
power of faith.
HOW TO DEVELOP FAITH:
HOW TO DEVELOP FAITH:
Anybody
can develop faith on himself to any extent he wants. But faith depends upon
truth, values and virtues. Here I am concerned about developing faith in
oneself to become successful in life. Success can be achieved or measured only
in terms of achievements. Achievements never come to us automatically. It is
the result of a conscious decision to attain something backed by persistent
endeavour to achieve that. When you achieve something that you have decided to,
develops your faith. When you can’t achieve what you have decided consciously,
then you lose your faith. Therefore developing faith is a matter of inner
integrity. You have to be true to your goals that you have determined for yourselves.
Otherwise you can never achieve anything in your life and you can’t develop
faith in yourselves. Therefore to develop faith you need to do the following:
a) Set Goals:
You need crystal clear goals in
your lives. You can’t achieve something which you have not decided. Therefore
list down all your goals and prepare a plan to achieve it. Read the list every
morning and remind yourself about your goals. When you become conscious about
your goals automatically you will be able to find out the means to achieve your
goals. You will then engage yourself in searching new opportunities to reach
your goals.
b) Prepare a Daily Routine:
You need to determine the
activities to realize those goals and put it in your daily routine. You must
practice those activities earnestly every single day in your life, so that by
the end of every day you will be one step closer to your goal.
c) Determine Working hours:
Based upon the requirement of the
quality of your goal, you need to determine how many hours you have to work on
daily basis. Your effort must be consistent with the requirement of your goal.
d) Fix Time Limit:
Every goal must be time bound;
otherwise goal will become a wish. Fix the time limit to achieve your every
individual goal.
e) Prepare Diet Chart and Exercise Program:
Protect and guard your health to
ensure vitality, energy and happiness in your journey to achieve your goals.
Consult a Dietician and get a Diet Chart. Follow an exercise program on daily
basis. Health is the key factor. A sound mind lives in a sound body.
f) Set Your Beliefs:
Do not have opposite goals and
opposite beliefs. If you want to achieve something and you are acting in the
opposite direction, then you will never reach your goal. Create proper belief
system consistent with your goals and act accordingly.
g) Prepare a List of Risks:
Take calculated risks. Do not
allow doubts and fears obstruct the realization of your goal. Find out risk
which you have to take responsibly. Prepare yourself to overcome those risks.
Cross the boundaries. On the other side of fear lies victory. Take initiatives
and march forward bravely. The more you overcome your risks the more confident
you become.
h) Be Active:
Never remain inactive. If you do
not work, you can’t develop faith on yourself. Inaction breeds doubt and fear.
i) Do it Now:
Do not procrastinate. A person
who procrastinates never reaches his destiny and can’t develop faith on himself.
j) Practice Faith:
Never allow self doubts to occupy
you. When doubt appears, work hard and replace your doubts by confidence.
Practice only faith not doubts. When you will earnestly follow your daily
routine that you have prepared on the basis of the activities to reach your
goal, you will automatically become confident.
k) Don’t give up:
Don’t give up unless and until
you realize all your goals. Persist whatever happens. You will be definitely
successful in all your endeavours and will become a happy, confident, prosperous
and successful person in your life.
