DON’T EXPECT MIRACLES IN LIFE

BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH                     Don’t expect that your life will take a dramatic turn with a Midas Touch and over nig...

BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH

        

          Don’t expect that your life will take a dramatic turn with a Midas Touch and over night all of your dreams will come true. Without yourself letting known very easily you have attained everything in your life; don’t expect. A dream will remain as a dream until and unless you put your conscious effort to make your dream come true. No God will come to your rescue, if you don’t work hard to realize your dream. A Dream without any action plan is a mere wish. And mere wishing, my dear students, will not give you any accomplishment in your life. Therefore, don’t expect miracles. Success has always been a matter of conscious endeavour.

          Future is shaped now, at this present moment:

Future is not shaped somewhere in the coming days. It is shaped now at this moment. If you work hard today, your future will be bright. If you postpone your work, your success will be delayed. Therefore you must understand that ‘life’ and ‘time’ – these two things are most important to fulfil our dreams and desire. It is ‘time’ that constitutes life. A life is nothing but the sum total of time. If time is wasted, life is wasted. Time wasted will not come back again. Life wasted cannot be regained again. Therefore now onwards, never expect miracles; take charge of yourself and utilize every seconds of your life positively and effectively. If you spend a time well, you will spend your day well. If a day can be spent wisely, a life can be lived wisely. If you can make living a day successful, you can make living a life ‘successful’ too. Therefore focus on the present. Never waste time.

          Give time to your most important activities daily:

Whatever you regard as important, do it every day. I have mentioned about the importance of the daily routine in detail in my posts on ‘6 TIPS TO IMPROVE YOUR EFFICIENCY’ and also in ‘DEVELOP FAITH IN YOURSELF’. If you are true to yourself than definitely you will be successful in your life. But if you are not sincere, honest and faithful to yourself than success will never come to you. Value yourself first. Value your dreams, value your needs and value your dignity. If you do not value yourself, no one in this world will value you. Therefore prioritize your values and activities, list them up and practice it in your daily life.

          Seek motivation from within:

 Don’t seek motivation externally. Create a burning desire for success. Whenever you go through any inspirational quotes or lines, get it by heart then and there. Whenever your energy goes down and you become demotivated, remember those inspirational quotes or lines and you will get instant motivation. You have to keep your desire and motivation alive.

          Always keep Good Company:

Company of people plays a major role in our life. Because in many cases our success or failure depends upon the type of company we keep. Bad company will lead you always towards darkness. Good company only will elevate you. Seek company of people who honestly loves you; who cares for you and who inspires you. There are many people in our lives who are friends in disguise. Beware of them. Recognize them and be away from them. If you can’t maintain distance from them just try to avoid their company. Because we become like them with whom we live. If you want to become successful in your life, choose your company wisely. Observe their words and actions. People can be best recognized not by their good behaviour but by their trustworthiness. If their words and actions are balanced, you can trust them. If they always beg excuses and pull you in wrong direction, just simply avoid them.

          Study Good Books:

Good books are equally important as good company. A good book is equal to a good friend. Always carry the kind of books with you that boost high spirit and morale. Always study books of wisdom on a regular basis. At least devote time to study one or two Chapters on a daily basis. Make it a habit. You will experience tremendous change in your life. Your confidence level will increase considerably. You will learn to find out necessary directions to lead yourself in your life with the help of these books. You will learn from the experience of other people. You will become a source of knowledge if you continue to study for 1 or 2 years. You will become more confident.

         

Destiny is Your Own Creation:

 Yes, destiny is your own creation. It is not a matter of chance or luck. Expect for a miracle and you may waste your life, waiting for that. No magic is going to happen. Take charge of your own life. Take charge now. Take action now. Improve your skills, increase your efficiency and make things happen to you rather than letting things happen to you.