BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH You are born to win. You are not born to experience fear, anxiety, poverty or failure but ...
BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH
You are born to win. You
are not born to experience fear, anxiety, poverty or failure but to experience
an abundant, joyful and happy life.
Never
think of failure. You experience failure when you are not fully prepared, when
you lack the required knowledge, ability, skill, attitude and persistence. If
you give up and admit failure, misfortunes will be awaiting to welcome you.
Therefore, never give up. Thomas Edison failed 10,000 times before he invented
electric bulb. He said later on, “ I have not failed. I have just found 10,000
ways that won’t work.” Abraham Lincoln failed many times in his life but
finally at the age of 52, he became the president of the United States of
America.
Why Failure is more risky than success?
Failure means inability to
accomplish the set or desired goals. Failure is not a physical act. It is mental
acceptance of a defeat. It does not matter how many times you fail. But it
matters a lot how many times you bounce back to failure. When you accept
failure mentally, that is only failure. Once you accept and admit failure, you
are out of the road to success. A person who accepts failure in his life experiences
anxiety, worry, frustration, lack of confidence and poverty. There will be no peace
of mind for him. Failure along with it carries misfortunes. It deprives you of
your desired life. You will try to remain satisfied with something that
virtually you never prefer. You will try to rationalize your failure and
silently witness losing all your dreams. People will ridicule you and your
morale will go down. Life will become very painful and the obstacles that need
to be overcome will remain with you and you will try your best to live with
them.
What is Failure?
“Failure
is simply the opportunity to begin again, this time more intelligently.” –
Henry Ford
Failure
is the pillar to success. Success and failure are the two sides of the same
coin. If you want to achieve success then it is by crossing the roads of
failure. Every failure moves you a step closer to success. Every failure
provides you an opportunity to bounce back. Every failure provides you an
opportunity to make yourself more perfect for winning. But if you loss heart
and give up you won’t be able to reach the goal of success. Victory does not
come without effort. B. C. Forbes said, “History has demonstrated that the most
notable winners usually encountered heart-breaking obstacles before they
triumphed.” Failure is a good teacher.
It teaches us lesson that leads to success. It is not failure that defeats us
but the acceptance of the defeat that makes us failure.
Results of failure:
Accepting
failure in your life will take you away from success. You won’t be able to live
upto your expectations. Negative attitudes will begin to dominate your
thinking. When negativity will enter it will give rise to bitterness and
frustrations. Accepting even small failures also will deprive you to undertake
ventures to realize your higher goals. If you live in failure, you will live in
ignorance, misery, poverty or tragedy. Therefore don’t accept even small
failures in your life. Don’t even think about them. Failure is very risky.
Success or Failure - Choice is yours:
Failure can’t be an option to be
chosen at the cost of success. Wake up! Face your fears and failures. Cross the
roads of failure. On the other side of failure lies success. Do you dare to
fail? If you are unwilling to fail, you can’t achieve success. There is no
certainty that you will get success in a single attempt. Therefore you need to
persist. Success is bound to come even after repeated failures if you persist.
You have two choices. Either you can become a victor by defeating failures or
you can become a victim by admitting failures. Choice is yours. You are the outcome of your choices. It
is your choice that gives birth to your attitude and attitude ultimately
determines character.
Benefits of Success:
Nothing succeeds like success. The
taste of success is very sweet. Once you experience it, you can make it your
own. Successful people not only multiply their self confidence but also their
achievements. When you become successful:
1.
You will always feel fulfilled.
2.
You will always have peace of mind.
3.
Your attitude will always be
positive.
4.
You can guide others successfully.
5.
You will get money, fame and honour
in abundance.
6.
You will enjoy good health.
7.
You will enjoy your desired life.
8.
Your dreams will come true.
9.
You will enjoy freedom unlimited.
10.
You will be able to die peacefully.
Successful people become an example
to others. Just as failure attracts failure, one success attracts another one.
Once you know the science of success you can replicate success one after
another. Then success will become a habit. It will become spontaneous.
Success implies the progressive
realization or accomplishment of desired goals. In short success is freedom
from failure, fear and frustration. Success implies the acquisition of personal
happiness, love, self-respect, dignity and financial security or freedom.
Success is not luck. It is not a thing to be waited for but need to be created
and achieved.
YOU SUCCEED WHEN YOU THINK ONLY SUCCESS:
It is a thought translated into
action that brings results. The result is based upon the pattern of thoughts
created by you. If you THINK SUCCESS and BELIEVE in YOURSELF, success will be
yours. If you can think and feel that you can become successful, you will succeed.
But if you think negatively and give power to self doubts, you will not be able
to achieve success. Consequently you may experience failure. Believe strongly;
believe wholeheartedly that you can achieve your desired goals. Temporary failures
may come to you but you have to bounce back. Refuse to accept defeat. Try once
more. Think only success. Feel only success. Persist. SUCCESS is bound to come.
REMEMBER, Rome was not built in a day. Failure is necessary for growth. A
single failure can’t be a permanent failure for life. Turn every stumbling
block into a stepping stone for success.
How to turn Failure into Success:
1.
Change your belief system:
Changing
your belief means change your beliefs from failure orientation to success
orientation. Think only success not failure.
2.
Set your goals wisely:
Set
goals as per your capacity. Increase your capacity gradually and set higher
goals for yourself progressively.
3.
Follow a daily routine:
Choose
the activities that you need to do on a daily basis to reach your goal and
achieve success. Be absolutely sincere. Do not procrastinate. Do every single duty
everyday sincerely. Utilize your time
properly. Take breaks when necessary.
4.
Study the stories of people who turned their failures into
success:
History
is full of stories of successful people who turned their failures into success.
They never had admitted defeat. It is because of their success that the world
is now a better place to live in. Study their biographies and learn from their
experiences. Learning from other people’s mistakes saves our time and energy.
5.
Never ever give up:
Success
is an accurate programme. Success is not a miracle. It is not luck. It is the
outcome of the work done in a planned and required manner with the required
skill and knowledge. Have clear cut
goals with proper time limit. Give all your effort in that direction. Have patience
and persist. Never give up. You will achieve success. Have faith.
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