BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH We have always with us two options in our lives in every situation. Wherever we go we always...
BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH
We have always with us two options in
our lives in every situation. Wherever we go we always carry with us these two
options. And these options used to decide our fortune. These options decides
our rate of success, our confidence, our peace of mind and happiness in life. These
options are:
a)
We
can let things happen to us; or
b)
We
can make things happen to us.
Every
problem or condition in life use to provide us these two conditions. We can
either accept the thing as it comes to our way or we can take our own charge
and work to change the way and make things happen to us.
Let
things happen:
Letting
things happen to us is very easy. In fact, most of the people use to do that. Since
it is very easy to let things happen we use to allow it, but the consequences
are deadly. We can’t accept the things when it happens to us and we begin to
complain why these things are happening to us. But we, by then used to forget
that once we ourselves had let it happen to us by allowing the things to happen to us. We used to forget that when the control was there in our hands we have not put any effort to make things happen to us and we let things happen to us. I have mentioned clearly about
this in my previous blogs “Failure is more risky than Success” and "Little Knowledge is dangerous”.
Make
things happen:
God has
given us another option to make our life more useful i.e. the power to make
things happen to us. Making things happen is not very easy like letting things
happen. But it becomes easy along with time when we earnestly put our efforts.
It is not easy but can be made easy with our consistent and conscious effort. We
have to make ourselves powerful by following what is required to make the
things happen to us. The one and only thing that is required to know is what
are the things that we require in our life to make ourselves complete and the
knowledge and practice of the strategies to achieve it.(In my previous posts I
was only stressing on this area of making things happen. Some of them are “Develop
faith in Yourself”, “Direction is more important than speed”, “Don’t expect
miracles in life”, “Success with the help of your daily routine”, Success with
the help of a Diary”, “Blocking options that let you down” etc.)
By taking at
least one simple step every day you will be more closer to your goal everyday.
Therefore do not give up. Do not give up your dreams. Live with it. Realize it
with your own effort. As you sow so you reap. I want to remind you the famous
sayings of Thomas Alva Edision, “I never quit until I get what I’m after.”
