WHAT HELPS US? Bhaskar Jyoti Borah “If you do not decide your life consciously, You have to surrender...
WHAT HELPS US?
Bhaskar Jyoti Borah
You have to surrender to your circumstances
unconsciously.”
My dear students you have to decide the quality and the content of your
life consciously. If you do not decide what you want from life consciously, you
will be drawn here and there, hither and thither in your life by your
unconscious submissions. You will not be able to achieve something significant
in your life if you do not decide consciously what you want from life. You have
to decide your principles to live in peace of mind; you have to decide your
goals to upgrade yourself progressively, your relationships to enjoy life
happily and harmoniously and to decide the amount of your wealth to get security
and protection in times of your need.
My dear students, have you ever thought it in your life
seriously – what helps you? What helps you to do your work properly? What helps
you amidst your problems to overcome? What helps you to live in peace of mind?
What helps you never to give up? What helps you to reach your destiny? If you want to know the
answers of these questions properly then go through this entire writing.
What makes us successful?
What helps to make us
successful in our lives?
Is it ATTITUDE?
Is it Determination?
Is it Discipline?
Is it PERSONALITY?
Is it Self Motivation?
Is it Knowledge?
Is it Money?
My dear students, there is no single factor which is omnipotent. No single
factor decides our destiny. Every factor helps us in our lives. Every factor is
having its own potentiality and output. But unless and until you combine all
the requisites in you, your success will not raise its height.
The Secrets of Success:
First of all we must know what we want from life. What are the goals we want
to achieve? What type of life do we want to live in? What type of personality
do we admire? What amount of wealth do we require?
After finding out the answers of the above questions, we have to decide
how to achieve our desired outcomes? Then we have to consciously stick
ourselves to the practice of the methods, the means that will lead us towards
the fulfillment of our goals. Practicing all the required practices only will
lead you towards your desired success you want very dearly in your life.
If you want love in your life, you have to practice the giving of love to
others; if you want faith and confidence of people in yourself than you
have to learn and practice to be faithful to them; if you want to become a
great person in your life than you have to practice, acquire and internalize the
traits of the great personalities; if you want to become a very wise person,
you have to acquire and practice knowledge; If you want to be a very rich
person, you must be able to not only earn money but also to retain money. You
must practice the works daily what will make money for you and to invest it
properly to secure your future. If you do not know what are the practices for
earning money and investing then you become financially downtrodden.
If you want happiness in your life
than you have to practice happiness. You have to practice happiness despite of
your struggles or problems. You can’t wait for your problems to subside and
then to become happy.
Therefore, take yourself away from what you do not want in your life
consciously and practice consciously those practices that will give you the
desired outcomes in your life. Without experiencing pain, you can’t make a
gain. You have to pay the price for everything. Better to pay the price for
better things than to pay for degrading ourselves.
When your mind will not allow yourself to follow the ideals or practices that
you set yourself to practice, place yourself again and again in the ideals.
Don’t withdraw. Don’t give up. Direction is more important than speed.
Remaining stable is more important than instability and frustration. Perhaps you
know how to become successful in your lives but if you don’t follow the route
to success then you are not going to achieve it. You have to check your
attitude everyday to keep it on the right track. You have to practice
determination to keep yourself on your track. You have to discipline yourself
properly to move on your track. You have to develop and sustain good
personality traits. When there is a setback in your endeavour you have to
practice to stand up by yourself by motivating yourself that you can’t give up.
And finally you have to search all the required knowledge on the field and to
acquire and internalize it to make you successful. Simply knowing will not help
you unless and until you are ready to follow it. Great personalities have
rendered many useful advises to all the people around the world. But how many
of us are following it? Those who had followed created history. Those who have
not followed merged themselves in history.
