3 Secrets to SuccessI mydearstudents.in
BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH
In the whole world there is only one person who is responsible for your life and that is ‘YOU’. You need to learn to take 100% responsibility of yourself to achieve success in your life. Uncertainties, insecurities, doubts, frustrations and failures will always be there to delude you. It depends upon you whether you want to rise ahead of your frustrations and failures, conquer them and become a 'Victor' or surrender to them and remain 'Vanquished'. You need to admit your faults if you want to give a true direction and purpose to your life. You need to develop the right attitude and a right mind set to achieve great things in your life. Stephen Spielberg was rejected from a prestigious film school 3 times. Now the same school has a building named after him. Henry Ford failed in businesses and went bankrupt five times. But it didn't discourage him from trying to build one of the most successful car companies in the world. Success comes to those who are determined to achieve what they want and devote themselves to achieve what they wanted to. In this blog I am simplifying the process of Success in 3 steps:
i) Determining what you exactly want from Life;
ii) Devotion to your plan and work; and
iii) Dedicating yourself to the process.
1. Determining what you
actually want from your LIFE:
To become 100%
responsible and create a life you desire you have to decide by yourself about
what you want in your life. You need to set and achieve your goals. Unless you
decide your goals, you can’t achieve them. You can be determined to do
something if you know what to do in your life. You will be determined in your
life if you know your Mission and Vision in life clearly. You will be confused
if you do not know your goals, your purpose or mission and vision in life.
Therefore nothing gives you power except clarity and specificity of your
knowledge about your goals. Iron will and determination is the gateway to
achieve anything in life.
ACTIVITY:
Prepare a List
of all Your Dreams. Take up any 3 of your Dreams. Convert them into a Real Action Plan. When
your Dreams follow an Action Plan it becomes your Goals. Affix a Timeline for
each and every one of them. Don't relax your efforts unless and until you achieve all of them.
2. Devotion to your Plan
and Work:
You can’t achieve
anything to which you can’t devote yourself. To persist in whatever you do, you
need ‘Devotion’. If you don’t love what you have determined to do, you will be
unable to achieve it. Therefore, determine what you love to do. Determine the
purpose to which you can truly devote yourself. Devotion necessitates faith and
faith requires Action. Without action you won’t be able to make an iota of
difference in making progress to achieve any of your goals. You need to become
an ‘Action Taker’ to attain true devotion to your goals. When you do that you
attain the next level of your transformation i.e. ‘Dedication’.
ACTIVITY:
To develop your
Devotion to your Goals you need to Read Your List of Goals everyday in the
morning and in the evening. The reason behind reading your Goals everyday is to
train your mind to stay focused. Don't allow other things to distract you
from achieving your goals. Learn to Love your Goals and the Devotion to achieve
them will come to you automatically.
3. Dedicating Yourself to
the Process:
By the word
‘dedication’, I want to mean ‘Surrender’. Surrendering or dedicating yourself
to a cause or goal is not easy. It requires tremendous self-discipline,
sincerity and holistic actions. Unless you devote yourself truly to
your goals with enormous faith to achieve them, you will be unable to dedicate
yourself. Faith and devotion create miracles by bringing dedication to you. And
it is only dedication that makes a process spontaneous. If you can truly
dedicate yourself to your goals you will not feel the pain behind your actions.
You will be ready to traverse thousand miles to accomplish your goals with
spontaneity. You will overcome any hurdle with tons of smiles on your face. No
problems will be able to create a barrier between you and your goal. You will become
‘Unstoppable’. Success will become a spontaneous process for you.
ACTIVITY:
The only one way to
Dedicate yourself to your Goals is to Never Give up. Whenever your mind
distracts you away from your goals, become conscious and take control over
yourself and work again only on your chosen goals with the deadline to
accomplish them. Act as if it becomes impossible for you to fail. Take Actions
exclusively. Do whatever you have to do to achieve your goals. Master the Art
of Self-control and Self-discipline. Never allow distractions to distract you
from your goals. Your concentration on your goal is your biggest asset.
You
can’t dedicate yourself to a goal to which you are not devoted and you can’t
devote your true self to achieve a goal that you have not determined
consciously and wholeheartedly. This is the co-relation between the 3 Ds.
Therefore, set and achieve your goals with Determination, Devotion
and Dedication.
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