BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH Self-confidence is the root of prosperity. It is the level of confidence that differentiates people. The m...
BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH
Self-confidence
is the root of prosperity. It is the level of confidence that differentiates
people. The more confident a person becomes, the more he achieves success in
life. A Successful Person knows the art of confident behaviour. He exudes
energies that inspire people around him. Therefore, Self-confidence is the
foundation to the journey of Success. If you don’t believe in yourself, no
other people will believe in your abilities. The truth is your thoughts
manifest into realities.
You
can’t become Self-confident unless and until you find out the areas where you
lack confidence and work on them rigorously. Confidence is not something that
you create on the air out of nothing. You need to adopt a personal system to
work for confidence building with your own sheer effort. Simple tips of
confident behaviour adopting externally will never help you to become truly
confident unless and until you make the ‘inner core of You’ confident. Life is
a holistic whole. You can’t think in parts. You must develop the ability to
connect the dots. The people who can realize their true potential only can
realize any goal they set for themselves. Here, in this blog I am going to share
with you about five most important pillars to develop your confidence.
1. Positive Thinking: Negative
Thinking leads to lack of confidence. Negative Thinking and negative
affirmations will drain your energy away. Replacing negative self talks by a
positive one is a great step to develop positive thinking. Lack of confidence
is nothing but feelings of fear, doubts and insecurity. Positive thinking is
power in itself. You reap what you sow. Negative thoughts bring negative
results. Positive thoughts and positive affirmations will bring positive
results making you a more attractive and confident person.
2. Power of Principles: Principles are
the foundations of a good life. They determine the path that you want
to choose. You can’t devote yourself to a work which is not in congruence to
your principles and ideals. If you don’t follow definite principles and ideals,
you will be in a constant state of confusion. You will be not in a position to
decide things for you. Your interest, priorities, passions and goals will keep
on changing. You will not be in a position to move in a proper direction
smoothly. That is why proper principles and ideals are so very important to
determine. When you equip yourself with principles, you know your
directions in life appropriately.
3. Self-development: Self-development
is a critical factor in determining the level of confidence in a person.
Working for your personal development continuously helps developing your
confidence. Learn new skills that will make you an important and valuable
person in your career, society and community as a whole. Without developing
communication skills, public speaking skills, memory
skills, learning
skills, digital skills and leadership skills for rapid growth, you can’t
develop your level of confidence. By becoming a believer of growth, you will
attract confidence in abundance in all areas of your life.
4. Maintaining a Good
Health: Physical Exercises keep you in good health and also in proper
shape. Moreover, it gives you energy both in body and mind. It works as
anti-depressant. It keeps you happy. You will get sound sleep if you exercise
regularly. Sound sleep at night, will help you remain energetic and positive
throughout the day. It also helps in better decision making. Better decision
making is the soul of personal growth and confidence.
5. System Thinking: Our whole life
is a system. Everything in our life is interconnected. But in general, people always
used to think in individual parts and ignore the whole system. People think
habitually in terms of symptoms and not in relation to systems. Fixing things
quickly in parts at the cost of allowing problems to persist as a whole will
keep on inducing fear, doubts and insecurity continuously, stealing your
confidence away from you. If you repeat same types of mistake, you can never
become confident. You must develop the insight to see the interconnection
between things, take correct decisions and put proper efforts to get the
results you want in life.
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