BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH Self-confidence is the root of prosperity. It is the level of confidence that differentiates people. The mor...
BHASKAR JYOTI BORAH
Self-confidence is the root of prosperity. It is the level of confidence that differentiates people. The more confident a person becomes, the more he achieves success in life. A Successful Person knows the art of confident behaviour. He exudes energies that inspire people around him. Therefore, Self-confidence is the foundation to the journey of Success. If you don’t believe in yourself, no other people will believe in your abilities. The truth is your thoughts manifest into realities.
You
can’t become Self-confident unless and until you find out the areas where you
lack confidence and work on them rigorously. Confidence is not something that
you create on the air out of nothing. You need to adopt a personal system to
work for confidence building with your own sheer effort. Simple tips of
confident behaviour adopting externally will never help you to become truly
confident unless and until you make the ‘inner core of You’ confident. Life is
a holistic whole. You can’t think in parts. You must develop the ability to
connect the dots. The people who can realize their true potential only can
realize any goal they set for themselves. Here, in this blog I am going to
share with you about five most important pillars to develop your confidence.
1.
Positive Thinking:
Negative Thinking leads to lack of confidence. Negative Thinking and
negative affirmations will drain your energy away. Replacing negative self
talks by a positive one is a great step to develop positive thinking. Lack of confidence
is nothing but feelings of fear, doubts and insecurity. Positive thinking is
power in itself. You reap what you sow. Negative thoughts bring negative
results. Positive thoughts and positive affirmations will bring positive
results making you a more attractive and confident person.
2. Power of Principles:
Principles are the
foundations of a good life. They determine the path that you want to
choose. You can’t devote yourself to a work which is not in congruence to your
principles and ideals. If you don’t follow definite principles and ideals, you
will be in a constant state of confusion. You will be not in a position to
decide things for you. Your interest, priorities, passions and goals will keep
on changing. You will not be in a position to move in a proper direction
smoothly. That is why proper principles and ideals are so very important to
determine. When you equip yourself with principles, you know your
directions in life appropriately.
3. Self-development:
Self-development is a
critical factor in determining the level of confidence in a person. Working for
your personal development continuously helps developing your confidence. Learn
new skills that will make you an important and valuable person in your career,
society and community as a whole. Without developing communication skills,
public speaking skills, memory skills, learning skills, digital skills and
leadership skills for rapid growth, you can’t develop your level of confidence.
By becoming a believer of growth, you will attract confidence in abundance in
all areas of your life.
4. Maintaining a Good Health:
Physical Exercises
keep you in good health and also in proper shape. Moreover, it gives you energy
both in body and mind. It works as anti-depressant. It keeps you happy. You
will get sound sleep if you exercise regularly. Sound sleep at night, will help
you remain energetic and positive throughout the day. It also helps in better
decision making. Better decision making is the soul of personal growth and
confidence.
5. System Thinking:
Our whole life is a
system. Everything in our life is interconnected. But in general, people always
used to think in individual parts and ignore the whole system. People think
habitually in terms of symptoms and not in relation to systems. Fixing things
quickly in parts at the cost of allowing problems to persist as a whole will
keep on inducing fear, doubts and insecurity continuously, stealing your
confidence away from you. If you repeat same types of mistake, you can never
become confident. You must develop the insight to see the interconnection
between things, take correct decisions and put proper efforts to get the
results you want in life.
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